Q&A – The girl behind the blog!

Let’s get a little personal! Shall we?

I wanted to take some time for everyone to get to know me a little more. Sense we’ve been going over the informative material lately, I feel like it’s time to let go and have some fun!

So, of course I’ll start with some “normal” questions…whatever normal is, right? lol. buut I do want to get into some deeper stuff about myself. After all, this is an awareness page and hey, we are never alone in this Journey. If you notice one thing about me throughout my blog post, hopefully it’s that I care about everyone, a lot. I truly believe we are all beautiful works of art. But the second thing you may notice will probably be that even though I love promoting positivity, because I believe in it, I am also a deep person, I like to acknowledge that part of life, the edgy, sometimes dark parts that we must realize are all a part of our journey and our learning experience here in life. I mean I have quite a story to tell. lol. And one day we will get to that.

So, are you ready!? Let’s go!

What’s the worst thing you did as a kid?
– Honestly I was always a pretty good kid, on the shy side, to say the least. But when I was a teenager I would stay at my cousins house and we would sneak out of the house, sometimes. lol. I remember one of the times we planned to take their gas schooter out the night before, and so we found the key to it and kept it with us over night, and one their parents left for work in the morning we got the schooter out of the shed and litereally all three of ud drove it a few miles to a different town. You are probably wondering how we all fit, and I will say that it wasn’t easy. We eventually got caught, like we always did when we made plans to sneak away. But it’s one of those memories that make me laugh evertime it comes to mind. So, yeah, our habit of sneaking out was probably the worst thing I did when I was younger.

You are the only human left on earth, what would you do?
– Lonely much? Um. I guess I would find a fancy clothing shop, assuming it’s abandonded now?… and I would try on all of the cute clothes. A fun personal day of dress up, anyone!?

Are you old fashioned?
– I would have to say, no. I like to stay up to date with the changing times. It’s kind of hard not to with the amount of influence social midea has on our lives these days. Besides, how would I be able to keep up with my cool blogging if I didn’t believe in technology! I don’y think I could be old fashioned if I wanted to.

Are you spiritual or religious in any way? If so, how?
– So, I don’t follow any type of orginization type religion. But I am a spiritual person. I believe in life after death. I believe there is beautiful power beyond us and after the physical life. I totally support people on whichever it may be that they believe in. I love seeing people with good faith and I love seing people happy with their lives.

What are your 3 favorite movies?
– My three favorite movies would have to be Pet Semetary, Pretty Woman, and Titanic. But usually you’ll find that I’m actually a huge Horror fan! These movies are favorites through the years, so, I guess I have quite the soft side, afterall.. hmm.

Who is the kindest person you know?
– My mother! (My best friend) She has the kindest heart that I know. She has been by my side through everything.

What’s a great book you’ve read recently?
– A childrens book called Snowmen At Night! I recently had a story book night with my kids and that was one of the three books that I read to them. Such a cute and fun story.

What would your perfect Saturday be like?
– With my husband and kids. I’m a home body, so it would be really nice to have the day free, at home. Nothing planned just going with what felt right and what the kids thought was fun. We have a “playground” in our back yard, as my kids call it, and we spend a lot of fun in the sun days out there! Which is ideal. Hm, maybe sense it’s Fall now, I could pick going to a pumpkin patch with the family. Now that would be a great Saturday, also.

If you could ask your pet 3 questions, what would they be?
– Why are you so obsessed wit me? (lol)
– What is your favorite food?
– Do you want another cat friend added to the family?

Would you rather sleep wearing handcuffs or a bike helmet?
– Oh wow! What great choices.. (NOT)
I guess I would have to choose handcuffs, because I cannot have my pillow time messed with. It would be even more ideal if my hands could be in the front of me?.. Such a funny question!

When you’re having a bad day, what do you do to make yourself feel better?
– I love this question. So important. I usually start with a nice cup of coffee, it’s my happy place. It’s good to find even the smallest thing that you can turn into sort of a happy place ritual. Something that is your go to. I also like to find my favorit show and watch an episode or so, get into my comfy pj’s and just relax. I used to really enjoy going for a jog and lsten to music that motivated me. I haven’t really done that sense my youngest was born, as he’s still really young, but I’m perfectly happy with my new routine. I also love to write if I’m in need of getting emotions out.

What is the best advise you’ve ever received?
– The best advise I have ever received would have to be:
“Time doesn’t wait for you”
I know that statement can be taken in different ways. Though, to me it means no matter if you choose to give up or to pick yourself up, the clock still ticks. Which made me realize, why would I choose not to get up and push forward? Giving up proves nothing, it means nothing, time still continues. But if I move forward I’m making a difference, I am one of the reasons time is ticking by. I want to be a reason time exist.

What’s your pet peeve?
Okay. I can NOT stand the sound of snoring when I’m trying to sleep. lol. It will forever be my biggest pet peeve.

Do you have any regrets?
– I do. I have worked though it emotionally, which was a healthy step for me overall.
I would say the one thing that I have regretted in life would be the fact that I didn’t get to spend time with or see my grandfather before he passed, which was unexpected. He was only in his 50’s at the time. He was more of a father figure to me. I was living out of state during the time, but he did call me a week beforehand.

Do you have a deep, dark secret?
– No, actually. I tell my mom everything. As I said above, she is a huge support in my life.

Have you ever hurt someone?
– Emotionally, I’m sure. Like during a break up. Not that it was intentional, sometimes just unavoidable.

Have you ever self-harmed?
– As a teenager, yes. I do not condone it. Seek help if you self harm. It’s the best favor that you will do for yourself in that situation. It’s scary to tell someone information such as that, but honestly it will be a huge weight off of your sholders. You will be on an amazing road to healing.

How would you like to be remembered?
– A good mother, wife, daughter.. and a caring heart.

Who are the three most important people in your life?
My three children.

Was there one event that changed your life and the way you think?
– Yes. A positive event being the day I became a Mother, when my first child was born. It changed me dramatically. I always tell all of my kids how they are the best thing that ever happened to me.
They made me the best that I can be.

Would you sacrifice everything for love?
– That’s a tricky one. But I think if love is true, you won’t have to sacrifuce anything for that love. It would be natural.

Are you afraid of dying?
– A short answer would be, no. But that needs to be explained. haha.
I love living life, and am in no rush for dying and don’t want to leave my children. But I’m not afarid of it when my time comes. Hopefully not for another hundred years (LOL) but the reason I’m not afarid is because I do believe in life after death, and I believe that it will be a beautiful place in which we each personally believe it to be.

Have you ever been abused?
– When growing up there was abuse in the household. More mentally on my end. Thankfully me and my my mother have gotten away from that situation years ago and we both have an amazing life. I have an amazing step-father and she is happily married. I am also very lucky to have my husband in my life. He is an awesome father and husband.

Have you ever been in love?
– Yes, I have.

Are you happy with who you are?
– I have my days. But overall, yes I am happy with who I am today.

Would you ever give up your life to save someone else’s?
– Yes. I would give my life for my children. No questions asked.

Have you changed at all in the last year?
– I have! I have changed a lot sense I found my actual diagnosis and the right medication for me. Anxiety/panic attacks, ptsd, and depressive episodes. It’s been almost a year sense I went with the new treatment.

Would you ever settle for someone you didn’t feel was “the one”?
– Well, I am happily married, with “the one” so I would have to say, no. I think think this question applies to my situation. lol.

Is there someone you can tell everything to without fear of judgment?
– My mother, always!

Are you pursuing your dreams?
– I can say yes. I believe that I am doing what my purpose is in life.

Do actions speak louder than words?
– Yes! In most cases.

Is there something you would never do?
– There are quite a few things that I wouldn’t do. Skydiving being one off the top of my head. lol. That’s a no for me!

What makes you uncomfortable?
– Public speaking when I’m not prepared or it comes at random. I used to not like to publicly speak at all, but during college I gotten used to it. As long as I’m prepared!!

Okay, so I really hope that was some interesting information. And you all gotten to understand me a little better. I will try another sometime soon, with different topics.
Hey! I tried my best for my first Q&A! lol.

Another idea could be an original question in the comment section for anyone who may want to know anything particular, or just something fun, about me..anything! I’m an open book.

I want to end this post with a quote of the day!
“Difficult roads often lead to beautiful destinations” – Unknown